Holidays

Uggh holidays stress me out! No matter what you decide to do- somebody will be upset! It should not be about the day- it should be about spending a day together as a family-

Decisions, decisions, decisions

We make them everyday from what to wear, to what to eat, to how to do your hair, to how we put on our socks- everything is a decision. If we can all make these simple decision everyday with out agonizing over them, why do other decisions haunt us? Sometimes it is such a simple decision that we go over and over again in our heads, wishing we made a different one- why do we do that? We know after that decision is made and there is no going back? We make our decision usually on the knowledge that we have, yet the phrase, "if i knew then what I know now" I would never have done that.. but isn't that the point?- We didn't know that- that decision, that experience helped shape us into who we are now. Why is that so hard to accept- why are we so obsessed with trying to change- what we can't?